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Fr. Ron
Fr. Ron Bacovin

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December 14th, 15th, 2002

"Keep Christ in Christmas" is a slogan that appears on many billboards (thank you K of C). It is not a plea to spell correctly the word "Christmas" (you knew that!) but a plea to be reflective on the meaning of the day and hold it in your heart. Christ has come as flesh and blood on this earth for purpose and for our salvation. Don’t let the spirit of your celebration contradict the spirit of God’s wondrous work.

It is easy to preach against materialism and consumerism – they are such easy targets. The challenge is to see how they got into our hearts. How did we get caught up in such things and not be aware of it? The worst is to ignore Christ (thus making Christ "invisible" and irrelevant) and to be ignorant of why he was "sent by the Father".

In her book Illuminated Life, Sr. Joan Chittister writes about the monastic life: "The real contemplative hears the voice of God in the voice of the other, sees the face of God in the face of the other, knows the will of God in the person of the other, serves the heart of God by addressing the wounds, answering the call of the other. ‘The most valiant monastics’, the Rule of Benedict insists, ‘are those who live in community… Let permission to live alone be seldom given.’ St. Basil, an early leader of Easter Monasticism, asks pointedly, ‘Whose feet shall the hermit wash?’ The implication is clear. It is the human community that tests the spiritual grist of the human being." (Pg. 32)

Parents and grandparents exhibit this understanding when they tell others that what they want for Christmas is for the family to be together (and, for Catholics, to go to Christmas Day Mass). That does not always come instinctively to us. Those who have served others and see the beauty of God’s work in others come to that knowledge.

When you get together for Christmas and get into "deeper" conversation ask each other "what was their best Christmas ? Why?" How excited were you to receive a gift (as a child)? How excited were you when you saw your child or grand-children open a gift? Is God in here somewhere? I would think God is excited to do things for us… to see us excited as we "open" our gifts of self-discovery, knowledge, accomplishment, survival after some trial, and in serving others. Ask the question: if Christ were never born – would it really make any difference to you (I might suggest that your first reaction or answers will not be very substantive… keep thinking.)

Now, if you are going to talk about such things you have to prepare yourself. We are 3/5ths into the Advent season: have you gone to the Bible even once to read? Have you gone to Church other than Sunday to pray (even once)? Have you meditated even 5 minutes just once during the Advent season about Christmas? (You pay me to ask these questions – I’m your pastor.) If not – what is the excuse? Don’t even think of saying that you are too busy – I’m not buying it. You can prepare by playing the Christmas carols while decorating, baking, cleaning, etc. Sing along with the carols (not in your mind – with your voice). Have a bible open to and/or marked passages from the prophet Isaiah or the nativity narratives… and let them be prominently displayed. An Advent wreath can be most helpful. Ten days left… use them well.



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December 7th, 8th, 2002

Pastor’s notes: A friend of my once noted that "the problem with the Church is that it lives in the world not as it is but as it should be." That friend is both an idealist and a hard pragmatist (I don’t know how he does it but he does.)

Advent is a time for dreaming and for thinking of the ideal world… of imagining what the Kingdom of God will be like and when will it come to its fulfillment and then imagining how can we work with the Lord in bringing it about. What does the birth of Jesus, the Messiah, mean in our 21st century?. All the dreaming makes sense when we realize that the Lord wishes the good and the salvation for all who walk upon this good earth. ("Your heavenly Father sends rain {rain seen as a blessing} on the just and the unjust alike.") All the dreaming makes sense only when one gets down to specifics

As we approach Dec. 25th there seems to more talk of war… of course, in Iraq. Hopefully that will not come to pass. While our thoughts are about peace – so are the thoughts of the Iraqi people. Some (Iraqi people) believe that the real issue is oil, not weapons. One has expressed a wish that the oil would dry up and then perhaps people will forget about them and let them live in peace.

President Bush once stated that "America is a friend of the people of Iraq." And I believe that to be true – but because of the sanctions imposed on Iraq and the lack of food and medicines, because of the deaths of civilians in Desert Storm perhaps it is difficult for them to believe that. The Christian Science Monitor sizes up the "friendship factor" in this way: "Many (Iraqis) say they have nothing against Americans, and then bluntly state that they hate the U.S. government."

We live in fear of some sort of attack (terrorist or otherwise) from Saddam. The Iraqi people live in greater fear that the greatest military power on earth will unleash its weaponry on them… that they will be caught in the crossfire of war.

Perhaps it might benefit us to imagine ourselves in the place of the Iraqi people and think about what the future looks like to them, their children and grandchildren. In the end it will be the Iraqis who will have to live with the consequences of a war every minute of every day.

Maybe our imaginings will lead us to think of news ways of building peace and security – both for Iraq and the US.

One would be blind not to see Saddam as a despot who has inflicted terrible harm on his own people. Maybe the only real solution will have to come from the citizens of country – not from other nations. The question is: how would they do that?" (There are actually some effective ways – but the organization from within is not there.)

Maybe the president’s talk about waging war will actually stop any such war from taking place. One can only hope it to be so.

On an entirely different issue I had some difficulty in getting the resource people and an opportune time to have a parish-wide discussion about the scandal of child abuse (within the church). That may have been providential in the sense that the most recent meeting of the bishops in D.C. has given a clearer picture of where this might be going. So, on Sunday evening, Jan. 19th a meeting will take place. I have asked two of our parishioners to participate in a presentation: William Brennen and Maggie Klune. Bill is a counselor and Maggie has extensive experience in dealing with child abuse cases and has spoken to other parishes about her work. Aware that child abuse is much more extensive than we had thought it might benefit many who experienced it or see it around them and don’t know how to react.
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November 30th, Dec 1st, 2002

December 1

Pastor’s Notes: This week is the start of the "Church Year" and it starts with the season of Advent. For Catholics it is time to reflect on the meaning of God’s salvific love as it lived in the life of Jesus Christ.

Last year Anna Quindlen wrote an editorial in Newsweek magazine (12/3/01) reflecting that America’s crazed consumerism, more than ever, seems absurd. She noted that many of the gifts she gets she does not need (or want)... she has more than enough. "The United States has more malls than high schools; Americans spend more time shopping than reading…"

Adlai Stevenson half a century ago said: "With the supermarket as our temple and the singing commercials as our litany, are we likely to fire the world with an irresistible vision of America’s exalted purpose and inspiring way of life?"

Keeping in mind that her article was written just several weeks after the events of 9/11/01 she goes on to say "…Christmas this year could be rich, not only with lessons learned over two millennia, but those driven home in the past months. Not in many years has the country had more reason to believe that "I’ll be home for Christmas" is infinitely more important than "Santa Claus is coming to town." Yet some national leaders have exhorted Americans to shore up the economy and laugh in the face of terrorism by saying, "I’ll take it!" (Or, as one business type says to another in a recent New York cartoon, "I figure if I don’t have that third martini, then the terrorists win.") This brings to mind the work of John Kenneth Galbraith in the 1950’s, arguing that the modern economy didn’t flourish by satisfying the needs of consumers, but by creating the desire for products consumers didn’t need at all."

"… Right now there are many charities hurting just as much as retailers and with a more important product to sell: help for children who aren’t eating regularly or have serious illnesses, succor for old people who don’t have heat or companionship, solace for men and women who are homeless or trying to kick their addictions. Is there really any choice between alleviating pain and choosing novelty pajamas? The holidays should be a time to honor our best values, not a time to muffle them in layers of stuff.

I invite you think about alternative gifts… gifts that truly feed the spirit, or the hungry, or a particular relationship.

For children and teens… why not save some money and treat your family (or family members) to a meal. Take your brother or sister out for a pizza or hamburger and while you’re there have someone take a picture of you. Put that in a scrap book – and perhaps write down some of the things you talked about. Who knows, you may have talked about something extremely important to the other and did not even realize it. In the same way – take your parents out to eat (a restaurant or pizza or fast food – whatever you can afford) and do the same thing.

For anyone – make up a booklet of gift certificates that are good for a hug, help with homework, cleaning up the kitchen, going for a walk, or simply being silent when someone simply wants to tell you something. Perhaps a certificate per month (and some things can be repeated). The trick here is that when they want to "cash in" one of the certificates you are obligated to do it.

It is always good to give $ to the poor – but a better idea might be to help at the Trenton Area soup kitchen or visit a senior citizen who lives alone.

It seems pretty clear from Mt. 25, 31ff that when you serve another – you are serving the Lord.

And listen to the words of the Christmas carols and the stories of the birth of Christ. I know that after hearing them over and over and over they can "drive you crazy" – but on Christmas eve and Christmas day listen to them as though you have never heard them… they have much to teach us.

And perhaps one final exhortation (all agree with it – few take the time). MAKE THE TIME to be silent for prayer and reflection. Your celebration of Christmas will be very much impoverished if you do not.


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November 22nd, 23rd, 2002

It was reported in the news a few weeks ago that a woman was permitted to sue her doctor because he. withheld information from her about what was involved in an abortion, i.e. there is more to an abortion than just a procedure. In America magazine, 11/4/2002 there is a stirring account by Kathleen Mulhall Haberland who had an abortion at the age of 27. She writes about a retreat she made entitled Rachel’s Vineyard. She had an abortion 28 years ago. She relates how she had confessed the abortion three or four times (the 1st time the priest refused her absolution). She is in a 12-step program for alcoholism. Since 9/11/01 she picked up some traditional RC religious practices (Rosary, Mass, etc.).

On the retreat the moderators talked about a sense of alienation women have after an abortion to the church and to the spouse. They talked about alcoholism and addiction to drugs… she squirmed because these reactions were a composite of her adult life. "Hadn’t I loved my husband? Yes. Hadn’t I loved the Catholic religion? Yes. I remember asking my husband for a separation, then my life taken over with drinking and drugs. I, who was once so innocent, had turned into my evil twin. Sadness and remorse settled over me."

For the next 18 years she never gave the abortion a moment’s thought. "Hadn’t the nurse at the clinic told me the fetus was a blob of muscle and tissue, not a real person yet?… Because I was so quick to act, the abortion had little effect on me – until I became sober."

"It was then I knew I had done some- terribly wrong. I couldn’t find a way to make amends for taking a life that God wanted in this world. There was a saying in my recovery group that if the program isn’t working for you to look back on your life and find something you didn’t think important at the time…"

She goes on to talk about various scripture stories they heard. When she told people her reaction from her life’s story about one passage she was surprised at the others’ reaction to what she lived through. They were in tears.

At one point in the retreat they were encouraged to envision the child that was aborted. At first she imagined a 27 year old woman – then she writes the following: "Then I saw her as an angel with a lot of little children around her. She seemed to be guiding their play. Christ stood off to the side of the field watching. All were happy and busy in their play. Then she looked at me – it was a look of ecstasy. She came toward me along with all the children who were just as happy to see me. I was Jane Marie’s mother! (The name she gave the child.) I felt so loved. At first I couldn’t imagine why they would be so happy to see me. But then it came to me: the children and Christ were happy for Jane Marie that her mother finally acknowledged her existence. It was all she ever wanted, since I had made her unimportant, nonexistent. At this moment of acknowledgement I felt a release I cannot explain., as if a plug had come out of me and let the clean air of truth run throughout my mind and body…."

She would go on to describe other important and freeing events of the retreat.

She continues on and writes: "If I were to speak to any woman thinking about an abortion, I would put my arm around her and tell her about my abrupt alienation from my husband, my alcoholism, my drug addiction, the period during which I hated the church I had earlier loved, the dark life of sin. Then I would urge her to choose life. If I were to speak to any woman who has had an abortion, I would share with her my experience, strength and hope and urge her to call Rachel’s Vineyard. Then I would read to her this excerpt from Pope John Paul II’s encyclical The Gospel of Life (No.99:…"

(I do not have room to give you that quote but it is an exceptionally warm and pastoral letter addressing the wounded heart of one who feels the pain of an abortion.)

Her last sentence of the article: "What remains of my life I owe to the memory of Jane Marie."

PS: The Diocese of Trenton has a similar retreat program: Project Rachel.

Pat Carr has served exceptionally well as director of St. James Adult Education program at St. James. The resource center, the parish missions, the parish retreats, the many excellent Soup and Study programs, working with families an preparing liturgies for funerals, All Soul’s day remembrances, her service as a spiritual director, etc are just some of ministerial areas in which she has been involved. Pat has a unique quality in which she is able to help people grasp a wider vision of events going on in a person’s life and help them not only to sort them out but also to offer viable ways of dealing constructively with life’s difficulties. She will not only be leaving her position but will also be moving to Virginia. We thank her for her contributions to our community and wish her the best in her new home and in her new church community.


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November 16th, 17th, 2002

  In a seminar led by a Baptist minister, he stated that any money given to the church is given "to advance the Kingdom of God." He went on to say that as long as you have that money it is not an asset – it is a liability. It will remain a liability until you use it for the purpose it was given.

(Some reflections from Good News.) Part of worship is the offering of gifts or tithes. To solemnize this practice is not new to most Protestant churches who made it a ritual long ago. In the Catholic Church the bringing up of the gifts is first a reminder to us that all gifts come from the hand of God. It is also an act that expresses common priesthood; lay people bring up this triple offering (bread, wine and money) and it expresses or symbolizes their life. We live by food and drink, and it is sort of wild – but true – that our life can be Christ’s life. It is the only way he can "play in a thousand places". To make that closeness more true – i.e., to follow up on our baptism – the priest invokes the Holy Spirit to consecrate, make holy, fill with sublime meaning the bread and wine. You know from long familiarity what we name them: it is what Jesus names them – his body and blood. His life. And you can guess the rest: the gift is then returned as we enter into a greater communion with him and each other.

Money… checks… there’s a new way to make this offering and one doesn’t even have to be in church (stay with me here). Simply do it by credit card. There is one advantage in that it regularizes your giving. Who adopted this sort of giving? The Greek Orthodox churches are testing it. So are the Catholic churches in Chicago, San Jose and NY. Who has declined to use it? Brooklyn Catholics. Their chief financial officer, a layman, said, "I don’t think it’s what we want to do from a spiritual perspective." Southern Baptists don’t like it either… an official speaking said "God says you bring the offering as an act of worship. My concern is we are trying to approach a spiritual problem in the heart of our people mechanically."

One Presbyterian minister expressed surprise to a priest that Catholics "paid their bills as a gesture of offering." He felt it was an obligation. Freely accepted; the church has a budget established by the finance committee. You pledged annually, again, guided by the committee and without the pastor talking money. Those churches that receive their money from electronic transfers, checks mailed in, etc still had a collection at their worship service… but it was taken for the poor. Or whatever special needs had arisen, such as the victims of earthquake, tornadoes, war, etc. One wealthy parish (25 years ago) would receive $10,000 a week… all of that money was given away to needy causes. A committee that was elected decided where that money would go. One result was that the group found themselves becoming well-informed about poverty and injustice in society.

Symbols convey meaning. I do not know how much meaning comes through when the gifts are brought up to the altar: perhaps a lot. It is a part of worship and those who bring them to the priest ought to be aware that it is the heart and dedication of the people that are brought up with the bread and wine. That act of presentation can not be captured in an electronic transfer. But however it is done it is given from the advancement of the Kingdom of God.

5:00 p.m. Saturday Mass: Because of a family emergency and the need for them to regroup, Greg and Meg MacDuff will not be leading our song. Greg and Meg have been part of the St. James music program for approximately twenty years and their presence and gift of music will be missed very much. As a parish and for myself we want to thank them so much for what they have given and have meant to St. James church… it is beyond measure. May God bless them and care for them.
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November 9th, 10th, 2002

Pastor’s Notes: In the next paragraph you will see quoted a passage that leads me to write this week'’ notes. In his letter to the Galatians, St. Paul writes: "There does not exist among you Jew or Greek, slave or freeman, male or female." This was a new and radical thinking about the freedom and equality of the community of those baptized in Christ. Some time later to the Christians at Galatia Paul would repeat this formula but omit the words "male or female". It’s hard to figure our if he left it out on purpose, left it out without reflecting on his early letter, or if someone "got to him" and pressured him to change his mind. In any case, I am sorry that he did not repeat his early teaching in its fullness.

From the Foundation for Global Community (July/August) comes this observation as reported in The Christian Century magazine. "Give women a chance: After the Israeli-Palestinian peace talks failed in July 2000, President Clinton said, "If we’d had women at Camp David, we’d have an agreement." Swanee Hunt and Christina Posa agree, and can cite cases in which the presence of woman (sic) helped achieve peace. The women of the New Sudan Council of Churches, for example, organized their own summit to help end the bloody hostilities between the Dinka and Nuer, negotiating shared rights to water, fishing, and grazing land. Also, the Sudanese Women’s Voice for Peace talked with military leaders of the rebel armies in order to gain access to rebel-controlled areas, which was necessary for humanitarian relief. And it was women who helped ensure that humanitarian aid got to families who needed it rather than being diverted for personal gain. "Given their roles as nurturers, women have a huge investment in the stability of their communities," says Hunt and Posa. When talks would break down in the Northern Ireland peace negotiations, "the women would come and talk about their loved ones, their bereavement, their children, and their hopes for the future," one British participant observed…"

I am writing this note before the November’s elections. The news media has reported that there were more women running for governor of their state or for federal office than ever… but the number was abysmally small (if I remember correctly that number was 12). Women are the most undervalued and underutilized political resources we have. Wiser minds can perhaps tell us why that is so.

When it comes to the religious clerical state no one stands out front of the Catholic Church for male exclusivity. But on the other hand , in that same Catholic Church, it was the women religious who for centuries (long before any secular equivalent mentality or organization) had established their own religious orders and monasteries, were founders and CEO’s of hospitals, were presidents of colleges, were great reformers of the Church, and Doctors (teachers) of the Church. On a number of occasions when a bishop went to a convent or monastery to sort out the various troubles there he was often unceremoniously sent on his way ("we can handle our own problems – thank you"). The Archdiocese of NY had to send in a nun to straighten out and re-establish the good name of Covenant House. Women are being recruited for the more visible and important diocesan-wide offices throughout the USA. I am drawing no conclusions about all of this – but I thought it might interest you and provoke some thought and conversation.

St. James Parish was awarded a 2002 Pacesetter Award from the American Red Cross. It was for our work in having two blood drives a year. We are especially thankful to Chris Morgan for her long-term work in pulling it all together, getting the volunteers and all that is needed to make it work. The best thing, of course, is the fact that the blood is much needed and saves lives. Thank you to all the blood donors.


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November 2nd, 3rd,  2002

Pastor’s notes: Tuesday is Election Day. You would be correct if you expect me to urge you to go out and vote – and that is what I am urging you to do, especially the youngest of you who are eligible to vote.

From the years immediately following the Viet Nam war (which seemed to evenly split the country and the minds of the voters) no political party has held a majority of Senators by more than a few seats. It seems as though it is going to be that way for a long time. So if you have strong Republican or Democratic loyalties it is very important to have your voice heard through your vote.

I am told that I must not tell, suggest, or campaign for or against anyone… such instructions come down from the bishop’s of NJ. I would not do that anyway. (I often wondered how some churches can have political speakers at their services and we can have none – or even conduct some sort of open forum. I would think the forums are of great help to the voters.) It has happened that various Catholic newspapers can and do print the voting records of the candidates (both sides must be presented and dealt with equally) so that people might be informed.

In NJ the candidates certainly seem to be at great variance on many issues and the choice, if you do not vote for a third party, seems pretty clear for most peop.

Good and responsible citizenship has been a strong teaching within Catholic circles. In some countries if a person does not vote they do not share all the privileges of being a citizen of that country… in some places that means they take away your driver’s license. We don’t take away driver’s licenses – but people have given their lives and have suffered terribly so that free and open elections can take place.

One ought not to be so cynical as to conclude that their vote doesn’t count or it doesn’t matter. Even if your candidate should win by a landslide your vote still counts – to you.

Earlier I especially urged the youngest of voters to vote. In a good number of political races the issues that might concern the young voters are not being mentioned or discussed. The older members throughout the US who will be voting will far outnumber the younger voters. The politicians notice this and they have geared their campaigns to those who will vote. That’s who gets them elected. You would (and I would) do the same thing. There is nothing improper about that – but if the younger voters don’t take their issues to the public and if they do not back it up with their votes they will be ignored.

I do not know how others react when they go into a voting booth. I can only say that each time I go to vote I feel as though I am doing it for the first time and there is a special excitement about that. If my vote did not carry then at the least I "spoke my piece" and sense that my former teachers would be happy that I acted as a responsible citizen. So I ask you, for Sr. Florence’s sake – go out and vote!

The month of November has long been a time for Catholics to step back and take time to remember their deceased with a little more attention. We take time to reflect on their influence in our lives and that includes people we have never even met. It is not unusual for a pastor in Ireland to have an Irish-American knock on his door and ask him to help locate the gravesite of their great grandparents. We are connected with those who have gone before us. Nov. 3 at 7:30 p.m. in the chapel we will have a special prayer service for those who have died in the past year and/or for those whom you would like to remember in prayer. You are encouraged to be in attendance. You will be pleased to have done so.

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October 26th, 27th, 2002
Pastor’s notes: Just War Theory It seems that the Just War Theory was developed by St. Agustine (though the first idea of a just war may have a Roman background). When it came to self-defense St. A. contended that one’s own life or property was never justification for killing one’s neighbor. But nations have an obligation to maintain peace and it is this obligation that gives them the right to wage war. He went on to write: "The passion for inflicting harm, the cruel thirst for vengeance, an unpacific and relentless spirit, the fever of revolt, the lust of power, and such things, all these are rightly condemned in motive of war. He says "We do not seek peace in order to be at war, but we go to war that we may have peace. Be peaceful, therefore in warring, so that you may vanquish those whom you war against, and bring them to the prosperity of peace." Motivation was given high priority by St. A.

The principles of a Just War Theory would be developed over the centuries – and it was in the late Middle Ages where something of a final formulation came about.

A just war can only be waged as a last resort. All non-violent options must be exhausted before the use of force can be justified.

A war is just only if it is waged by a legitimate authority. Even just causes cannot be served by actions taken by individuals or groups who do not constitute an authority sanctioned by whatever the society and outsiders to the society deem legitimate.

A just war can only be fought to redress a wrong suffered. For example, self-defense against an armed attack is always considered to be a just cause (although the justice of the cause is not sufficient--see point #4).

Further, a just war can only be fought with "right" intentions: the only permissible objective of a just war is to redress the injury.

A war can only be just if it is fought with a reasonable chance of success. Deaths and injury incurred in a hopeless cause are not morally justifiable.

The ultimate goal of a just war is to re-establish peace. More specifically, the peace established after the war must be preferable to the peace that would have prevailed if the war had not been fought.

The violence used in the war must be proportional to the injury suffered. States are prohibited from using force not necessary to attain the limited objective of addressing the injury suffered.

The weapons used in war must discriminate between combatants and non-combatants. Civilians are never permissible targets of war, and every effort must be taken to avoid killing civilians. The deaths of civilians are justified only if they are unavoidable victims of a deliberate attack on a military target.

While people debate about the justness of any war it seems as though all the conditions may apply at first in some circumstances… and war is waged. While in the seminary there was a retired professor (Fr. Nevins) whose sense of morality was finely tuned and observant. He noted that when it comes down to war one can be almost certain that all reasoning "goes out the window." He summarized it by saying that in war "you’re going to do what you’re going to do." The fire bombing of Dresden in WWII served no real military objective… and it is but one example of so many instances of violent "overkill."

For more information go to your computer to the Google search engine – type in "just war theory"… but not all are from a Christian perspective.

 

The Festa Italiano: what a great thing that was and what a big thank you we give to you for the work. To all who prepared the sauce, the deserts, set up and tear down, waiters and waitresses, cooks and kitchen workers, our soloist and those who care out for the dinner – many thanks. (And a special note to the many young parishioners who worked so hard as well). Deacon Currie runs a very good program.

Parish mission: our sincerest appreciation to Fr. Stan Smith OSA who gave us so many stories and insights this past week - and to Pat Carr and Sue Ziegler who pulled it
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October 19th, 20th, 2002

Pacifism: For many followers of Jesus non-violence is a way of life – a difficult choice. In its simplest terms it means what it says: one will not inflict physical harm upon another no matter the circumstances. I say "choice" because so often we find our emotions going strongly in the opposite direction. This is especially true when we think we are victims of a terrible crime, when we see the defenseless being destroyed and most strongly when a loved one is attacked and/or killed.

In popular thought pacifism seems to be passive and a sure invitation to "be walked all over" by those who would do harm to you. For some this may be true – but for most pacifists nothing could be further from the truth. To be pacifist does not mean to be non-confrontative.

During WWII "…the non-violent public resistance of the Rosenstrasse wives in February-March,1943. Reacting to the internment of their Jewish husbands, hundreds of these non-Jewish wives and other civilians who supported them started daily sit-ins in front of the building at Rosenstrasse 2-4 where their husbands had been taken initially (many were soon shipped to the camps). SS soldiers shot into the air over their heads, shut down the nearest streetcar station, and tried to frighten them off, but they kept coming, their ranks swelling to a thousand. The Nazis were faced with a dilemma: To stops the protest, they could drag these women away and arrest them, or brutalize them in the streets – but the regime was concerned that that would inflame other Berliners, who would surely hear about what had happened. In a week Goebbels decided it was easier just to give them their husbands back, and he did so, transporting many back from the camps: 1700 were set free." (Sojourners Sept/Oct, 2002)

A government in the Philippines, the Soviet Union, the freedom of Hungary and Poland and others were all accomplished in confrontative and non-violent ways, i.e. without a major war or battle. Ghandi of India is perhaps the last century’s most exemplary example of a nonviolent "victory".

"The reflexive assumption that nonviolent action has structural limitations related to a regime’s character is in part the product of three generations of stereotyping this strategy as a moral preference of a form of ethical behavior. Most preachers of "nonviolence" – by insisting that nonviolent action triumphs when the opponent witnesses the suffering or hears resisters’ messages and is persuaded to relent – have unwittingly reinforced the belief that power cannot be taken from rulers who are willing to use superior military force. That isn’t the way nonviolent resistance has usually worked.

Regimes have been overthrown that that had no compunction about brutalizing their opponents and denying them the right to speak their minds. How? By first demonstrating that opposition is possible, peeling away the regime’s residual public and outside support, quashing its legitimacy, driving up the costs of maintaining control, and overextending its repressive apparatus. Strategic nonviolent action is not about being nice to your oppressor, much less having to rely on his niceness. It’s about dissolving the foundations of his power and forcing him out…" (Ibid. pg. 23)

Most people are unaware of such "victories" and continue to stereotype the pacifists as "weaklings" and dreamers. Such conclusions are not well founded.

In next week’s bulletin I will present the conditions of the just war theory.


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October 12th, 13th, 2002

 USA + WAR + IRAQ. What was once a blip on the screen now occupies all the media and (presumably) a majority of citizens. What is a follower of Jesus to think?

At the outset I must acknowledge that because people have strong differences of opinion it does not mean one side is evil and the other is good. That one exhorts us to go one path and the other says not to travel down that path. We ought not to attribute to either immoral (and/or unpatriotic) motives.

No one seems to disagree that the great evil, the oppressive regime, and threats Saddam Hussein (S.H.) is and poses are illusory. They are all too real. (It is interesting to note that some Muslims see S.H. as holding the line against extremist Muslims: e.g. S.H. forbids and bans the Al Qaeda, the extremist dress codes such as those imposed by the Taliban or of those who would not let 14 girls out of a burning building because they had no veils covering their faces, etc.).

Over the centuries Christians have developed two basic attitudes toward war.

    1. Pacifism: it opposes military action in all circumstances and thus would condemn any war… including a preemptive war. They would claim this is a perversion of Jesus’ basic teachings and therefore not simply unchristian but positively anti-Christian.
    2. The "just war" theory: under certain conditions not only is military action legitimate - it may also be obligatory. St. Thomas Aquinas wrote "those who are attacked should be attacked because they deserve it on account of some fault." That is, war is waged to avenge grievous wrongs already committed.

Pope JPII has stated on many occasions that war is the extreme last reason one may have recourse to it.

The stance of pacifism us clear. The "just war" theory seems to indicate that this proposed war does not meet its criteria.

One moral theologian writes: "A preemptive war is unjust for a very simple reason: it cannot be just to condemn masses of people to certain death in order to avert the potential death of an equal or lesser number of people… The death toll among the Iraqi population in the planned war is likely to exceed the 100,000 of the 1991 gulf war… And we should not forget the likely American casualties, estimated by some at 20,000 to 30,000." (Miroslav Volf, Christian Century, Sept. 25-Oct. 8th issue.)

Other thoughts to consider: damage to the difficult relationship between Christians and Muslims; the extremely dangerous precedent in what a pre-emptive war might "allow" other nations (China, India, Russia, Pakistan, etc.) to do the same; the regime that replaces S.H. could be just as bad or worse; and unintended consequences (possibly the most devastating of all the consequences). Once the way of war is decided upon will its objectives multiply as we go on? On the other hand how does one "erase" perceived and real threats to other nations? If it is justified that S.H. be removed (and there seems to be agreement on that) then where and how does that possibility exist outside of war? The methods of warfare have changed in this third millennium as exhibited by terrorist attacks carried out by extremely small "forces". How does any nation best deal with such new tactics?

Just for the record: The bishops of the US have joined with the lead of the mainline Protestant, Anglican and Orthodox leaders in urging the president to "step back from the brink of war." The Monitor, the diocesan newspaper carried their statement two weeks ago. After listing their reasons the bishops wrote: "We respectively urge you step back from the brink of war and help lead the world to act together to fashion an effective global response to Iraq’s threats that conforms with traditional moral limits on the use of military force…"

I bring this issue to your attention. You take your faith seriously, you do not run from difficult issues and are wise enough to know that not all problems present themselves in stark contrasts so as to be easy to decide. I hope this is a beginning of important discussion. What are your thoughts?
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October 5th, 6th, 2002
Within our country and a number of years ago we Catholics found ourselves facing a number of moral issues surrounding the issues of life. We have always faced them throughout the history of the church – but it concerned the bishops of the country so much that they chose the month of October as a time to focus on various life issues. Though October is called Respect Life Month most people are more familiar with the term pro-life.

Respect life/pro-life issues emerged from the very heart of the preaching and life of Jesus. Within his own lifetime the practices of infanticide, capital punishment, slavery, etc. were rampant. Jesus’ preaching often stood in stark contrast to common "wisdom" and cultural practices. The early church, especially the Roman martyrs, strove to be a church of non-violence and common support to one another. It was the early church that gave visibility to women and children within this new "church" and sought to protect them from being treated as non-beings.

Respect life/pro-life concerns are not to be limited to one or two issues. The Church throughout the centuries was at its best when it was strongly respect life/pro-life orientated and at its worse when it was not.

The Inquisition (definitely an anti- respect life/pro-life) or at the times of the Reformation the Church was at its worse. When the Church preserved education and the classics during the times of the "Barbaric Age" or the "Dark Ages" it was at its best. When the church was at its worse some of her greatest saints arose in her midst.

In our time and to my mind it was Cardinal Bernadin who gave us a powerful image on which we could focus and understand. He spoke about the seamless garment: meaning that all the respect life/pro-life issues are tied into one another – you cannot have just one issue and not be concerned about or stand against the others.

The issues of euthanasia, abortion, old age, capital punishment, etc. are all part of the seamless garment. To uphold, to stand for, to respect one means to uphold the others. He understood that to go in opposite directions on these issues was to tear the garment and thus lose credibility on all the issues.

In practice some people choose to focus on one issue for they realize that to try to focus on them all at the same time often does not allow for giving clarity or depth to their concerns and that there is only so much time to give. To focus on one is not to deny or denigrate the others.

At St. James, our Social Justice Committee is a sort of umbrella that seeks to pull all these issues, and those who work for them, into a harmonious whole. To work for the disenfranchised, the elderly, the outcast, to an end to capital punishment (the US is the only Western industrialized nation today that uses capital punishment), to seek to end abortions, to building homes for the poor, bringing food or feeding the hungry (and more) -  all are the responsibility and the work of the People of God (the Church).

I encourage you to be become familiar with one or more of the issues that give cause for serious concern to the follower of the Christ; to talk about these with others, to understand and to instruct. Read the Scriptures and become informed – and give witness to the respect life/pro-life message of the gospels.

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September 21st, 22nd, 2002

  From Good News comes this little portion of a homily.

"We frequently hear of how difficult it can be for people who move to new parishes to become integrated and, especially if they do not have children or time, to become actively involved in parish organizations. One man in his mid-fifties who moved to a large cosmopolitan parish in the northeast tells how he had gone to Mass on a daily basis and yet after a whole year he still knew no one'’ name. He described how when in the supermarket or the street he met people whose hands he shook daily at the sign of peace they frequently looked the other way to avoid getting involved in conversation once they were outside the security of the structure of the Church environment. What he experienced, he felt, was an imagined community, not real relationships that were shaped and formed by the common experience of sharing in the Eucharist. His experience reminds us of the humorous tale of the man who went into a church one day and sat in the front seat with a hat on his head. Within minutes someone approached him asking him to remove his hat. "Oh thank God," he said, "I’m not invisible for at last someone has noticed me!" He went on to explain that he had been coming to that church for a whole year and no one even greeted him, so he was beginning to suspect that once he crossed the door of the church he became the Invisible Man."

When our church was designed it included something new (or so it seemed). Churches may have had "vestibules" (a small area between the front doors of the church building and another set of doors that led into the worship area) – but what in the world was a "gathering area?" It was a place for parishioners to gather before and after Mass to meet with each other, catch up on the news, connect with each other concerning church ministries, discuss the scriptures of that Sunday, and whatever else might come to mind. It was meant to extend the "greeting of peace" beyond the doorway of the worshipping area. The times of the Masses were scheduled so as to allow this to happen.

Observation indicates that people seem to prefer to go directly into the worshiping area before Mass (possibly for some it is a time for quiet meditation, others to get a good seat, or possibly just out of habit). When we met with and welcome new parishioners at the rectory we encourage them to "gather" before and after Mass as a way to meet new people and build community. We "give them permission" to go up to" other parishioners and introduce themselves and we reassure them that they will not be ignored. Familiar faces at worship means an awful lot to us. We meet Christ there in many forms, faces and temperaments,

Once in a while we do call you in early so we can practice and get acquainted with new hymns – but we do encourage you to use this sacred space as well. It is a special place for hospitality – a hospitality that all of us have talent to offer and to from which to benefit.

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September 7th & 8th

As listed in the little bulletin insert there are a number of services to commemorate 9.ll.01. The chapel will be open all the day for your own private prayer. The services will not be long in duration but big on heart. They are set for various times throughout the day so as to offer the maximum opportunity for anyone who would like to pray.

Mercer County Department of Health sent out a Personal Coping Inventory and some information on how to deal with stress (after a disaster)… how to help children after a disaster as well as a guide for older adults. Along with it are some reference materials to help anyone who feels that the horrors of that day are still "too much with you." If you would like a copy please le me know and I will send the information on to you.

A Time magazine article posed the question: Are we changed or are we damaged by the events of 9/11? We were encouraged, right after the event, to go on with our normal routine of living so as to show that our spirit was not broken. How could one possibly even put up a front of living as though nothing had happened? I went down to "ground zero" and I remember reading how there were gawkers and curiosity-seeking people going down there and they were making it a circus. I saw only silent reverence. Of course people went there – this event touched our spirits very deeply. Few went down for "thrills". They wanted to see for themselves what seemed most unlikely and impossible. They wanted to go down because this disaster moved their hearts to an indescribable sorrow. Even if they did not know anyone personally – seeing it on the screens connected us to those who died and were hurt in ways that had not been in use since times of war. St. Paul would have asked something to the effect that if one member of the body suffers then do not all the members of the body suffer? Indeed we did – and we do.

Pray for those who died – and pray for their family and friends. Pray for this country and pray for those who would do harm to this country. Stay close to your God – this is a time when we must not let evil direct our lives. Our allegiance is to Jesus the Lord and he is the way to life and light.

Claretian Publications puts out a wonderful and very good monthly bulletin entitled At Home with our Faith: Nurturing the spirituality of families. It is informative, practical, and easy (as well as productive) reading. If you are interested in getting a copy of this each month please let me know (I prefer that you would go through the parish e-mail to notify me). Thanks.

You will probably know that by now Fr. Bruno Ugliano has been reinstated as chaplain at Rider College. This is great news – especially for those of us who know Bruno. The ordeal for him was not pleasant.

That being noted, I also need to note some-thing like this is the exception. As one lawyer noted, of some 500 reported cases of abuse to minors about 5 were actually unfounded. That is a reminder to us that we cannot go into denial and think that reports of abuse are actually few or have no substance . I met with one of our parishioners who works with such cases and she reminded me that for a person to step forward is extremely difficult to do. Their greatest fear is that they will not be believed. If you have suffered sexual abuse as a minor from any adult I encourage you to report it to the authorities -–but more than that, seek out help if you have not already done so. You help yourself most by going for personal counseling – perhaps group meetings may be able to help the process along at a later time.

An open parish meeting will be scheduled soon to address this issue with some professional expertise brought in. As soon as the date is confirmed I will let you know.
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August 31st, September 1st, 2002

There is an element, a quality, about Christianity that at times can be terribly confusing, and at its worse, downright debilitating and destructive. For many, a message is received that one can never do "enough". Perhaps you can use all your energies to avoid evil – but the Catch 22 is that you did not do what you "should" have done. It’s hard enough to admit to the evil that we have done – but how in the world does one measure the "good that we have failed to do" as it is noted in our Act of Contrition. Speaking to the Catholic chaplain at the State Psychiatric Hospital, he noted that there are a fair number of Catholics there who somehow received the message that they can "save" the world… but they can’t measure up to the task and so they suffer terribly. We know that this is the work of Jesus – but somehow they have taken on the guilt for not being the messiah.

Why would that be so? It seems to me (you may see it another way) that the very nature of love, the heart of Jesus’ teachings, is always to demand more. Its thirst seems unquenchable. Many prayers of the saints reflect that understanding. On the other hand – it seems to be in our nature to try to measure up to those demands. We probably succeed many more times than we "fail’. It is also important to remember that it flows both ways - we demand as well as seek to satisfy.

How does one keep a balance? A sense of satisfaction and yet keeping an "edge" – knowing that our souls will only be at rest when they rest in Christ?

A little story can shed some light on this dilemma. A Jewish rabbi, Jacob, was near death. He was a wonderful rabbi, a learned man and one who was loved by his people. But on his deathbed there was a heavy sadness about him that no one was able to soothe. A good friend, another rabbi, visited him. After spending a long time with him he thought he knew what the problem was. He asked his dying friend: "Jacob, are you sorry that you are not Moses?" The rabbi responded: "No, I am sorry that I was not Jacob!"

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I think history students would nod their head in agreement if I were to say that one of the most challenging struggles of the late 19th and early 20th century was over the role and the dignity of laborers. These were times when workers who went on strike put their lives on the line. And if their lives were on the line so was the fate of their families. Big industry simply had control. This was not a unique phenom to the USA - it was worldwide (and continues to be just that in many parts of the world). It was a disregard for the laborer that led Marx and Engels to write Das Capital and opened the way to atheistic communism, especially in the Soviet Union. In our own USA, the bishops supported the right of the workers to organize – and did so in the face of strong opposition. The long hours, the terrible working conditions, child labor practices, the disregard for the health of the workers, etc. all came together and called for change within our society. And our society recognized these needs – and the government has established a national holiday in honor of the workers: Labor Day. For most it signifies the end of summer, the beginning of new school terms, and an end to an unofficial resting time.

Part of the Labor Day weekend might be well spent to read some of the history of our country in regards to labor practices, etc. I don’t think it can but help establish a new respect for this holiday we celebrate as a nation.

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August 24 & August 25 2002

 As we approach September 11 and the first anniversary of the attacks, St. James Church will be participating in various events. On Wednesday morning we will gather in the front of the chapel on Eglatine Avenue at approximately 8:30 a.m. At 8:48 (the time the first tower was hit) we will ring bells and then enter into the church… (If available please bring a bell with you on that morning). Mass will be at 9 a.m. In the evening there will be a community walk whereby people will gather at the Presbyterian Church on South Main St. for a procession down to the school district building at 425 Main Street with a short program concluding the service. We will have a special prayer service on that day. It was originally planned for the evening but it may be moved to earlier in the day so as not to conflict with the "Hands Across Hopewell Valley" program noted above.

The following is from a commentary by Patricia Datchuck Sanchez that appears in Celebration (an Ecumenical Worship resource).

When Karol Wojtyla became Pope - John Paul II in 1978 he said "…in the course of 2,000 years, these words, ‘You are Peter,’ have been spoken 264 times to the ears and conscience of a fragile and sinful man…"

That Jesus is the Son of God and that Peter, as Rock, is keeper of the keys (to the Kingdom) is given a unique treatment by the gospel writer – Matt.. He is the only gospel writer that includes the word church in his gospel.

From this gospel we learn 3 truths about the community of believers whom we call church.

First: the church is necessarily rooted in the confession of Jesus as the Messiah (Christ) and Son of God (Lord). What makes Peter and Church so special is not their brilliance or fidelity, (next week’s gospel doesn’t paint a very good picture of Peter), not their cunning or their courage. Rather Peter and company draw their distinctiveness from the confession of faith that claims them.

Second: a truth regarding the church is the fact that ours is, by its nature, a church in conflict. Jesus declares this truth by declaring that the church is the designated opponent of evil in the world; nevertheless the "jaws of death" will not prevail against it". Sometimes it is evil from without (as in the persecutions by Nero, Domitian, the Third Reich, etc.). Nevertheless, from the beginning the church has survived. At other times we have been attacked from within (as in the scandals of the papacy in the Middle Ages or the ongoing scandal of abuse of minors in our time). The church is not necessarily a place to seek repose but it is rightly the site of moral conflict, until such time as all evils are overcome by goodness and Godliness.

Third: In this gospel we have the fact that the church, i.e. Peter et al, is entrusted with the keys to God’s reign. In Mt. 18:18 the responsibility of keeping the keys – here conferred on the community, means that the church has the power to "bind and loose". This expression… can be interpreted in several ways: laying down rules and making exemptions, imposing and lifting sanctions, forgiving and not forgiving sins, performing exorcisms, admitting or not admitting to the community. The idea is that God will ratify, support and authorize what Peter and the others enact.

This brings our discussion regarding the church, Peter and the authority wielded by each to full circle, to the question… "Who’s the Boss?" First, last and always, the answer is the same…Jesus, whom God has made both Lord and Messiah. This is the confession on which it continues to grow. This is the confession that sets the church in conflict with all that is evil until the saving reign of Jesus Christ is firmly and fully established and the jaws of death are only a toothless memory.

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August 17th, 18th, 2002

A little light on the notes this weeks with just some stories and thoughts. Perhaps one or two might hit a responsive note within your spirit.

A Christian who attended prayer meeting faithfully always confessed the same things during testimony time. His prayer was seldom varied: "O Lord, since we last gathered together, the cobwebs have come between us and Thee. Clear away the cobwebs, that we may again see Thy face." One day a brother called out, "O Lord God, kill the spider!"

+ 32,850 Sermons Later.

"Dear Sir:
It seems ministers feel their sermons are very important and spend a great deal of time preparing them. I have been attending a church quite regularly for the past 30 years, and I have probably heard 3,000. To my consternation, I discovered that I cannot remember a single one. I wonder if a minister’s time might be more profitably spent on something else?
Sincerely…"

For weeks a real storm of editorial responses ensued. The uproar finally was ended by this letter:

"Dear Sir:
I have been married for 30 years. During that time I have eaten 32,850 meals – mostly of my wife’s cooking. Suddenly, I have discovered that I cannot remember the menu of a single meal. And yet, I have received nourishment from every single one of them. I have the distinct impression that without them, I would have starved to death long ago.
Sincerely…"

+ A woman told Billy Sunday that she had a bad temper, but that it was all over in a minute. He replied, "so is a shotgun; but it blows everything to pieces."

+ A monk, in his travels, once found a precious stone and kept it. One day he met a traveler, and when the monk opened his bag to share his provisions, the traveler saw the jewel and asked the monk to give it to him. The monk did so readily.

The traveler departed, overjoyed with the unexpected gift of the precious stone that was enough to give him wealth and security for the rest of his life. However, a few days later he came back I search of the monk, found him, gave him back the stone, and entreated him. "Now please give me something more precious than this stone, valuable as it is. Give me that which enabled you to give it to me."

+ From the book The New Men is told the story of one of the seminarians at Rome who worked one summer with Mother Teresa. The seminarian was Chris Nalty: "It was our second day there – really our first full day at the home. They told us to be there early to help serve mass. The chapel has no pews, just a concrete floor. There are no fans, so we’re up there dripping with sweat. Since everyone was sitting on the floor, I couldn’t see who was out there. So when it came time for communion, I went off to the side of the altar and I look up and the first person standing n line is Mother Teresa. My knees just went weak."

"Ya’ll know what Mother says, right? She says her mission is serving Jesus in the distressing disguise of the poorest of the poor. There is a total belief that everyone you are helping is Jesus. And the volunteers talk about it. As Americans, so much of what you see is sort of repugnant. You say, ‘I can’t do that. It’s gross. Look at the sores on those people and look how dirty they are.’

"But let me tell ya’ll something. It doesn’t even register on you until you do it. One day I’m holding this guy while they clean maggots out of his leg. You could see the bone through the sores. And if that’s all you thought about and all you focused on, you couldn’t do it. It would just be sick and disgusting. But then you think about what Mother’s saying and it becomes incredibly beautiful. Here’s this guy and he’s helpless and he’s Jesus."

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August 10th 11th

(cont’d from last week: from an article by Fr. Gabe Huck that appeared in Celebration).

"The grace of preparation

…Do we expect the choir to have the habits of rehearsal, of care for their voices? The lector to wrestle with the reading through the entire week before proclaiming it? The preacher to have habits of study and reflection and evaluation? So all the more we who are the assembly need habits of preparation? What is expected of us in the Sunday liturgy can’t be done cold. There are the obvious ways: reading and reflecting on and even discussing the Sunday scriptures beforehand And every night prayers that echo and prepare for Sunday’s intercessions. And every morning prayers that prepare for Sunday’s songs of praise. And every table’s prayers that prepare for Sunday’s table prayers. And holding some silent time as dear.

…we have to train the muscles for this Sunday work, to know singing out and Bible reading and interceding, and acclamation as part of daily life and prayer. Even more, we have to try out in life the sharing at the table, to get that into our bones, all that bread shared and the cup shared demand. Else how can we be doers of these Sunday deeds? Such preparation is another grace of the assembly.

The grace of being hungry and thirsty

…To come hungry and thirsty. That means hungry for the assembly itself, for God’s word, for the Holy Communion.

Sunday’s assembly becomes for many just one more item to calendar. Yet wouldn’t we expect that the baptized person living through the six days of work and activities, six days of doing what one can to model a world redeemed, six days of giving up and giving in, six days of confusion and six days of television and other screens, wouldn’t we expect that the baptized person will hunger and thirst for the assembly on Sunday?

The obvious answer: Not unless that baptized person knows that one’s baptized self will be fed and refreshed!

(In times long past people would fast from midnight until the time they would receive Holy Eucharist. Often we wrongly focused on the fasting – but nevertheless, the practice developed in many a strong desire to await and receive the Eucharist – often with greater devotion and piety.)

… What I have tried to name … and in what follows are virtues, that is, habits: the habits of the heart of the assembly and of the presider and perhaps others such as the leader of music. Virtues seldom come naturally. They are the result of consciously chosen disciplines that then become the shape of our lives, become part of who we are.

Aidan Kavanagh notes that "No one should be seen to do in the liturgy what they do not do day by day in life." that is important. We are fairly well accustomed by now to separating the art from the artist. It is ok to love Wagner’s music and Picasso’s sculptures and Eric Gill’s work with typefaces and design, even knowing what we know about the moral character of the persons who did the work. Presiders should not ask us for a similar separation.

In parish life, of course, it is more often the opposite the case; a good and decent person is a terrible presider. Not everyone has the art, and of those who do, not all have been challenged to develop it. We have usually settled for too little. …

…(but it) does not excuse us any longer from exploring the needed virtues and doing what we can to inculcate them (habits and disciplines) precisely as ways of life as well as liturgy.


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August 3rd, 4th, 2002

The following comes from a talk given by the Rev. Gabe Huck. He has dedicated well over forty years to the study of and the practice of prayerful liturgy.

"… let’s think about the grace of being an assembly. If in baptism all of us, presiders or not, have been clothed in Christ become members of that body, and because nothing matters more, all those baptized who gather, presider, gather as assembly. The graces and skills of the assembly are prior to any ministry to the assembly, presider (priest) included. Even from a solely pragmatic view, how can we ask someone to preside who does not know well how to be one of the assembly? (Only citizens may take office.)

"The presider is neither entertainer nor educator nor counselor nor inspirer nor ordained doer-of-the-rites. The entertainer needs an audience, the educator students, the counselor clients, the inspirer fans, the ordained doer-of-the-rites needs not the unordained by the truly initiated. If we who gather for liturgy fall into any of those descriptions, if we for whatever reason have come merely for inspiration or education or obligations fulfilled, then we won’t be an assembly and the ones who take on the tasks of presiding have no partner in the assembly.

What then are the specific graces of being an assembly? What are the habits that all of must cultivate? In what manners do we try to shape the children of the community?

One grace is this. Getting it in our bones that what we do here as church. Who sings? Who dines? Who attends to scripture and ponders it in preaching? Who intercedes? Who gives God thanks? Not me! The church! How in this time and place, this century and this nation with its immense effort to make us believe that we are, each of us, the ultimate entity, are to find this grace, this habit of doing and being as a collective, as a community?

The natural thing is to hear the day’s scripture and the preacher’s homily and think: what does it mean to me? What am I to get out of this? That’s the question the consumer asks. But it isn’t our question. The word comes to the church. The church is assembled here to be attentive. The church is to listen, to ponder, to reflect, to respond.

American life schools us to be individuals who consume. We who assemble on the Lord’s Day have been so shaped. No wonder we settle for, and even laud, presiders who become suppliers to our consumers. We who consume whole continents, who are most skilled in accumulation of things and experiences, here in assembly we have to wear, to try out, to rehearse, another identity, not the consumer but the member of a body, the citizen, the protagonist.

This is an immemse challenge, but to acknowledge it is to make a beginning. Then to ponder how this habit might take root in us as we make any decisions related to the shape of our rituals. Ask: if we expect that little by little we can come to sing and process and listen and acclaim and petition and even keep quiet and still as an assembly, then how do those who take some responsibility for the preparation of the rites in our community, how do they think about entrance rites, silences, repetition, and so much else. How does the ritual we do Sunday after Sunday come to belong to the assembly so that little by little all, ministers included, will know this? No audience here, no consumers.

So that is one grace of the assembly: to have it in our bones that here all that is done is done by us, by the church.

And, a strange corollary: done by a church that has me as a member and – strange to say – a church that can’t do it without me. We had a lot of Roman Catholic emphasis on the obligation to attend (notice the verb) Mass on Sunday. Obviously today half to three-quarters of Catholics have not made that part of their lives. But the truth seems to be that there is a Sunday obligation: I have to be there, I am obliged to be there because the church is going to do its work and I’m part of that church and I am needed! (to be continued)

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20th, 21st, 2002

The New Men by Brian Murphy is a book about men who have gone to the North American College (NAC) in Rome. It is not your ordinary college – it is the Unite States Seminary at Rome. Riverhead Books, NY, published the book in 1997.

The book is about four men who are in their first year of studies for the priesthood at NAC. They are not the typical seminarians of thirty years ago. The four men who are featured have all had successful jobs and some were, at one time, close to marriage.

A struggle that three of them wrestled with is, of course, whether or not they actually have a vocation and part of that struggle is whether or not they are called to celibacy and the priesthood or to marriage. (The fourth one is sure he has a vocation but is not sure whether it is to the diocesan priesthood or to a life of monasticism.) More than that, they find that the very life they are called to (as they understand it) is actually more radical.

The rector during their time, Msgr. Thomas Dolan (who is the newly-appointed bishop of Milwaukee), at one of their spiritual conferences spoke to them about their call. His words, in one fashion or another, can be addressed to us as well.

"Not long ago I received a letter from a priest – not out too long –who was criticizing his seminary formation… Well, he says something that at first I thought was silly. Then I thought he had a point. He said, ‘You know, all through my years of seminary formation, my spiritual directors, my rector, my formation advisers, they asked me a bunch of questions. They would say, ‘Are you happy? Are you ready for the diaconate? Are you ready for the priesthood? How was your summer’? He said, ‘Never once did anyone say to me: Do you believe in God?’

Now one would like to think that you can take some things for granted.’"

… "maybe he had a point. And that is the utter necessity of faith. Daily we are called to die to such things as doubt, cynicism, relativism, and the aimless existence we see all around us – the things that come from lack of faith." …"Giving up in order to gain a closeness, a connection with Christ."

…"Hope – a firm reliance on the utter dependability of God’s promise and a rejection of the despair, gloom, and cynicism we see all around us… "Simplicity of life. seeking to live plainly and justly and gratefully and not succumbing to the accumulation and stinginess that seem to be endemic in Western society.

What do we "give up" to gain so much more – to love the Lord Jesus?+ + + +

The parents of one of the seminarians lived out west and were farmers. They spoke about the harvest and how, with one terrible hail storm, their whole crop could be wiped out -–and everything was lost for the year. Every farmer out west lives with that fear. They spoke of how they were "hailed out" in ’64, 67, 72, 78, and ’80. Yet in describing their troubles they spoke something of the power and beauty of family:

"When the hail is pounding down on the roof and bashing in the windows and the family is huddled together and you know that all your work with the wheat was for nothing – you know, those are special times. I don’t mean they are good. They are special – ‘specially powerful. About the only thing you can think about at that moment is how nice it feels to be surrounded by your family. It’s a feeling that God is right there with us. You know you are going to pull through somehow, so you don’t worry. It’s funny to think about those bad times so kindly I guess…"

It’s not too strange – but it is very reassuring to hear that very often families describe the most difficult times of their lives as times when they most felt the support from each other. It was in difficult times that they were not torn apart from each other but, as a family, they were strengthened. You cannot put a price on that!
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July 13th 14th, 2002

The Justice and Penal system in the USA, for the most part, seem to work out well... i.e. a high percentage of people who are in prison have broken the law. But not all trials result in fair representation and/or justice. When it concerns the matter of imposing a death penalty special care must apply. (For the record, I am against the death penalty… for several reasons.) If such punishment is meted out there is no opportunity not only to redress the matter – but also justice is ever met.

From Amnesty International comes the following information. In 1991, Kim Ancona of Phoenix, AZ was brutally attacked and murdered. Ray Krone was arrested for the murder. He had always claimed his innocence. In the intervening years he would go through two trials and his mother would borrow $200,000 against her retirement accounts on his behalf. He was put on death row for just under three years.

When he went to trial, Ray Krone had no previous criminal record and he thought that his innocence could be easily proven – so he accepted a public defender. The first trial lasted 8 days and no DNA evidence was presented. In 1996 he went back for a retrial and it was said that the DNA could show nothing conclusive one way or the other.

On April 26, 2002 County Attorney Richard Romley unexpectedly petitioned the court to dismiss all charges against Krone because "modern scientific testing techniques have proved conclusively that there is no forensic evidence (no fingerprints, no DNA, no hairs, and no blood) linking Ray Krone to the murder of Kim Ancona." All the evidence pointed to another man who then arrested.

In the second trial of RK the judge had doubts about the quality of the evidence and the identity of the killer – but "it’s not easy to tell a jury you think they are wrong."

The evidence that swayed the jury was some bit marks on the victim’s body and RK’s "matching" mold of his teeth. The dentist said they were RK’s but latter would say that the second person who was arrested had a better match to those found on Kim’s body.

Ray Krone is the 100th person to escape execution. He was imprisoned at the age of 35 and released at 45. He "went down," as he calls it, in the prime of his life." "You don’t dream in prison," he said. "You don’t think of the future, especially when you’re doing life."

"I didn’t have a lot of opinions before about the death penalty," he said. "But you know, when you’re sitting there facing it, it’s like ‘hey, if they can do it to me and I know it’s not something I did, anybody is susceptible to it.’ We pride ourselves in our justice system. We hold it up as a standard for the whole world. One hundred wrongful convictions," says Krone, shaking his head. "That’s not right." (Nor is the fact that the man who actually committed the crime escaped justice.) It was noted that with the evidence the jury had for the first trial it seemed reasonable their judgment was correct.

Even those who are in favor of the death penalty, 100 innocent people who have escaped wrongful imprisonments and death is a stark reminder of just how susceptible to humor error the system really is. The Innocence Protection Act (IPA) that will be before the Senate will insure that every person accused of a capital crime has access to competent, experienced counsel and DNA testing of evidence, and that juries are informed of all alternative sentencing options. You can visit takeaction.amnestyusa.org/action to help.

It really isn’t a matter of "that could happen to you" – it’s a matter of justice being truthfully served.

Thank you’s and prayers for our Work Campers who returned this weekend. They gave a full week of their time in the Adirondacks of NY State to assist those who could not help themselves by making repairs to homes, building steps and porches, etc… our Campers are both teens and adults – of whom we have much to be proud.

And while I am at it, kudos to Jan Curran who was recognized for her work at the Trenton Area Soup Kitchen (Volunteer of the Year) and the following who volunteer at the St. Lawrence Rehab Center, Lawrenceville: Anna & Sevy DiCocco, Carolmarie Gorka, Betsy Barlow, Livia Borkowski, Mary DeSantis, Gerry Fox, Joseph Gorka, Doris Jones, & Eleanor Lauricella (together they have given 12,800 hours of service over the years).

Thank you very much for your contributions to the Missionary Appeal. $6,000 was the amount collected for the appeal and Fr. Kochery is extremely grateful for what you have done for the work of the Missions.


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June 29th, 30th, 2002: At the 8 a.m. Sunday Mass last week I read the following. I thought you might like it.

God will never…

The will of God will never take you,

Where the grace of God cannot keep you,

Where the arms of God cannot support you,

Where the riches of God cannot supply your needs.

The will of God will never take you,

Where the spirit of God cannot work through you,

Where the wisdom of God cannot teach you,

Where the army of God cannot protect you,

Where the hands of God cannot mold you.

The will of God will never take you,

Where the love of God cannot enfold you,

Where the mercies of God cannot sustain you,

Where the peace of God cannot calm you,

Where the authority of God cannot overrule for you.

The will of God will never take you,

Where the comfort of God cannot dry your tears,

Where the Word of God cannot feed you,

Where the miracles of God cannot be done for you,

Where the omnipresence of God cannot find you.

 

Author Unknown
From Good News come some reflective thoughts for today.

Blase Pascal, mathematician, scientist and mystic, made this unusual statement. He said: "All the evils of life have fallen upon us because we will not sit down alone quietly in a room." Maybe we wonder what we are supposed to do when we sit in the room. Perhaps that’s the point: we aren’t supposed to do anything. Perhaps we are supposed to be someone – someone to whom God has given life, this day, this hour, this awareness that he is present to us. God is also present in the harried, noisy, and busy times of our lives. But we do not seem to think about God then. Some choose in this quiet time to listen to music, or to reflect upon poetry, or the scripture. That’s up to each one of us. It’s even possible that one might think about a line or thought from a sermon! (It’s possible!) or from the gospel, or from the Mass, especially in advance of the Sunday or daily Mass. It would mean so much more if we were already alerted for the word of God.

What’s the usual objection? We are too busy! Therein lies the problem – think about the word "too". The Sabbath was given to us precisely so that a part of the week will allow us not to be "too" – busy, active, whatever.

We know how to hasten the day; very few of us can savor the moment. Music lovers and book lovers can teach us something here. They "lose themselves" in their music and books. What is they lose? Any sense of distraction, even of time. When we lose time, we are not robbed of anything; we are filled with something else. With peace, harmony, beauty. That really means we are filled with some One – the God of all loveliness, who gives us these moments out of time.

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June 22nd, 23rd, 2002

I am sure that you have heard it quoted often – the wonderful phrase by St. Augustine: "He (sic) who sings, prays twice." Our choirs who help us to sing at our liturgies will have a well-deserved break during the summer months. Our appreciation for their leadership and special meditations is best expressed by the force of our own voices added to theirs… all to the glory of God. We instinctively are aware that as we gather to give praise to God, to proclaim the marvels God works each day in our lives, our own faith is strengthen and we become a truly thankful people. So we thank you, our choirs and leaders, for helping us to "pray twice" each time we have come into the presence of the Lord.

It was about seventeen years ago that in the US there was a serious downturn in the economy and jobs were at a premium. In one parish within our diocese some professionals got together and established a job market/conference. They loaned a helping hand to men and women in finding work, writing resumes, preparing them for interviews and by extensive networking. Within our parish some of our parishioners, some with long-term years in one company, have had their positions terminated because of a number of circumstances. Listed below are a few of our parishioners who are seeking new work opportunities. Perhaps you might know of some opportunities that would "open the door" for them. Perhaps you could pass on a resume or refer that person to a particular company, etc. I have copies of their resumes at the rectory and you are welcome to pick up a copy at any time.

If there are others who are seeking work and would like to have your name in the bulletin, please write a three-sentence introduction to yourself and drop off your resume at the rectory.

Charles Noona: Chuck has an MBA in Finance and Investment and has worked as a stock and bond research analyst specializing in healthcare and transportation. He has experience heading a municipal bond research department. He is looking for a position where he can use his professional background.

John Rogener: John is a human resources/learning professional with global experience in training, e-Learning, leadership development, organizational development, change integration and performance management. Through learning and development, facilitating, consulting and coaching he has been working with organizations, groups and individuals to make changes in desired directions and behavior for 20 years.

Mary Jane Warznak: Mary Jane has a CPA with 15 years of diversified accounting, auditing, financial, internal control and tax experience. She is computer literate in Financial and Office software and has worked for public and private firms.

 

Next Sunday, the Rev. Peter Kochery, will speak at all the Masses. Once a year the Diocese of Trenton asks each parish to allow for a direct missionary appeal. It is one of the few times we take up a second collection at St. James during the year. The other times a second collection may be taken up are for Retired Religious (in December) and for special emergencies. If you do not have any additional funds from which to contribute – I would ask that you make your regular weekly contribution and give that to this collection. No matter how you may "slice it" – their needs would be greater then ours.
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June 15th, 16th, 2002

It used to be, or at least it seemed to be, that the summertime months in a parish would be gearing down of activities and programs. To some extent that is true – Religious Ed programs are on vacation (but then we have the Vacation Bible School), the full choirs will get a little rest, etc. However, there is enough to keep us hopping during the summer months: e.g. preparing children’s liturgies for the coming year, preparing for the coming year’s religious education programs, leaders of music are reviewing and looking over music for the coming year, Work Camp workers are preparing and Anchor riders are getting in shape, etc.

But this month offers us an opportunity to recall what happened over the past nine months – Confirmations, First Communions, Nursery School Graduation, Winter Weekend, Parish Mission, Soup and Studies, Teen Choirs, Choir Concert, Children’s choir and their wonderful and special surprises, the Occasional choir, the celebrations of the Great Mysteries of our Faith in our Liturgies and the decorating of the church, the coffees after Mass, Festa Italiano, Epiphany dinner, and a host of so many other (often behind the scenes) work that takes place. Were I to list all of them I would have filled all my allotted space for my Pastor’s Notes.

Let me take a little space here to give special thanks to our Servers at the Altar (and their parents). To the worshipping community they are and always have been a special element and presence in our liturgies. They assist in making the "flow" of the Liturgy go so smoothly and they are of invaluable assistance as they sometimes get together things that we forgot to do in our preparations before Mass. To my mind they give service to God is a special way. Melissa Conley, Jason Morgan, Matthew Hingstman, Andrew Servis, Andrew Kimbal and Jay Guarneri are seniors in High School who will graduate this year. Some have started back in elementary school. Foryour service and dedication the parish says "Thank You".

A special congratulations goes out to those who are graduating this year: to those going into High School, to those graduating from High School and who plan to go on to college or out into the work force. We recognize also those who "graduate" in other ways. Barb Lysenko, the children’s choir director, gave recognition to members of the Teen choir who have been part of children’s and Teen choirs since elementary school and will graduate High School this year – Michael Lysenko, Jeff LeGall and Amanda Bearer. Thank you and know that you will be missed.

Happy Father’s Day to all Dads!

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June 8th, 9th, 2002

The bishops of USA will be meeting in Dallas and the sexual abuse by priests against children will be the primary topic of discussion. It is an extremely complicated task they need to deal with…and for our sakes as well as theirs they will need our prayers. "Zero tolerance" seems like a clear and uncomplicated way to deal with abuses but in my reading I discover that Catholics on the "extreme right" and on the "extreme left" (and some in the middle) are not in favor of "zero tolerance." It often leads to other injustices. In the past few months when some bishops had to remove pastors because of past allegations some parishes demanded that they be allowed to stay--presumably the allegations were not yet proven or the pastor has served well after his actions of many years past. I think that from this time forward if a priest is found guilty of such allegations no bishop will reassign him.

I am hoping that the bishops will acknowledge the pain and sufferings of the abused. Perhaps there can be a beginning of a true and effective pastoral approach toward the victims. Many of the victims seem to express the same desires: that their pain be acknowledged by either the offender himself or the (arch) bishop, that there would be an expression of true sorrow from either, and that the offender not be put in a position to harm another. It will not put an end to suffering for all of them--but it would be a good start.

As for the "98%" of the priests who are non-offenders it would behoove us to look at ourselves and see how we might have failed the victims, the church and our bishops. We have reported such crimes to our superiors--the Episcopal Vicars, the Priest Personnel Director and/or the bishop himself. Sometimes the clergy have told the bishop that it was a mistake, a serious mistake, to reassign an offender…could we have pushed harder?

Money is an important element in this mix as well (though we don't like to talk about it). Apart from economics resources from a wealthy mentor to help the bishops(s) and money from insurance policies--any of the money that is involved ultimately comes from parish contributions. Some of the money may have come from diocesan investments--but that investment money comes from you. I do feel that the bishops have done a fairly good job in using the money wisely (they do have finance boards) and in general have been good stewards. We want the victims to get the help they need and the financial means to do it. Though it is hard to fix a compensatory price to the harm done we can acknowledge that need as well. How to determine what is appropriate is work for minds greater than mine.

I noted in an earlier bulletin that the media is not responsible for the abuses that were committed. They were doing their job. With that in mind I also quote the following that comes from The Wall Street Journal several weeks ago.

"…So there is outrage in the pews, and it is genuine. Like the Pope, millions of American Catholics have been grievously wounded to learn that priests entrusted with the innocence of their children have betrayed them--and that their bishops used the collection plate to pay off millions in hush money to victims.

There is, however, a parallel anger at work here, which proceeds from different motives. It represents a mindset that has long viewed the Catholic Church--correctly--as one of the last institutional voices objecting to anything--goes sexual morality.

Think of the irony: A sex-drenched American media culture is now upbraiding the Catholic Church for being too forgiving toward licentious sexual behavior. And a culture that has learned to tolerate anything (perjury isn't perjury if it's about sex) is griping that the bishops haven't endorsed a "zero tolerance" standard toward priestly misbehavior.

When we talk about hostility to the Catholic Church, we are talking about a culture that sees the Church as one of the few institutions willing to say no. And with good reason. Any institution that speaks without irony of sin and holiness, as the bishops did this week in Rome, will always be an obstacle to liberty as defined by libertines.

That is why those with this worldview remain implacably hostile to anyone trying to make the most obvious distinctions in this scandal. Begin with the fact of what we are talking about here is not pedophilia but homosexual behavior between priests and teenage boys. This invites questions that are next to impossible to raise in any public way today without inviting ridicule. Just ask the Boy Scouts.

By contrast, in their own letter,…, the bishops at least take the blame for own pastoral laxity and moral fuzziness. Priests must "promote the correct moral teaching of the church," they write, "and publicly…reprimand individuals who spread dissent and groups which advance ambiguous approaches to pastoral care. These words suggest that the bishops understand they are not reaping the consequences of passing the pastoral buck to their lawyers, insurance companies and psychiatrists.

Readers of this page know that we have clashed with the bishops in the past, especially over their forays into politics and economics. But like most Americans, Catholic and non-Catholic, we do not believe the actions of a few ought to invalidate the work of the majority of priest, who teach our children, care for our sick and otherwise make the fabric of American society richer by their ministries.

When we look across the breadth of modern American life, in short, we see the institution of the Catholic Church as one of our great assets. The current scandal will have served some purpose if it forces American bishops to take more seriously accusations against their misbehaving priests. But we aren't about to join those whose real agenda is to leave the church crushed and humiliated."


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June 1st, 2nd, 2002

Corpus Christi Sunday In research for this feast day a number of homiletic services and writings speak about hunger… the hunger of the body for food.

Love and business and family and religion and art and patriotism are nothing but shadows of words when a man is starving. O’Henry in Heart of the West

Hunger does not breed reform; it breeds madness and all the ugly distempers that make an ordered life impossible. Woodrow Wilson

We must live (and eat) simply, that others may simply live (eat). Paul Webb

In March a number of preparations have been put in place to carry out our Loaves & Fishes commitment. It is one time when St. James brings together volunteers to feed the hungry in the city of Trenton. It takes place at the Cathedral Church of our Diocese.

Chuck and Peg N organized the call for parishioners to come help, bring food and prepare lunch bags… or even donate some $ for the work. On 3/23/02, when the temperature was 28 degrees the volunteers went into action. At 0900 (a former military man wrote the report) a line was set up outside the Cathedral to bring in over 450 lbs of turkey, bag lunches, potatoes, veggies and very tempting home-made cupcakes, etc. Before these volunteers even got there Frank L. and Mark A. had already stored 75 gals. of milk and juice stored in the refrigerator. Denis K got the set-up people to do their work, and by 10000 Mike T. already had 325 cups of hot coffee ready to be served with bagels, buns and juice. The great chef, Joe M, had his restaurant cooking and by 1030 Tim R had run out of nametags for the volunteers. Now put in place were the servers, greeters and people ready to do any odd job asked of them.

Marge M (our clown) arrived and gave out candy Kisses. BAC gave an orientation talk, Kevin B opened with a prayer and Mike T led the singing.

At 1130 meals were served. 700 guests were to be served that day. Our young volunteers were sparkling, Melanie A. made sure that a bag lunch was given to people as they left. Yet there was work to be done and so Julia K and her dad started the process and Rick M made sure that tables and chairs were up and the floor mopped. All was completed by 1400.

Who benefited? Certainly the guests were warmed and fed… but you can be sure it was you who brought food, packed lunch bags, volunteered, etc. who benefited the most. Imagine – it was Christ who was served on that day.

Other churches in the diocese do the same thing throughout the year. For that one day Christ did not feel the pain of hunger in those who were served. For many it was a reminder that hunger is a reality day after day for billions of people on this earth. We have the ability to easily feed all the people – now we need the will to decide and the determination to make it happen.

Congratulations to our deacons as they celebrate their ordinations these past few weeks – and especially to Sam Sciarriatto who completed twenty years as a deacon and is going for more. God bless you all.

Combined, I figure Fr. Jim and I have over eighty-five years of service to the church. It reminds me of a (true) story of the young man who told his mother that he was going to become a priest. She told him that he made one woman very happy. He asked her if she was that woman. She said no – it was the "woman he will not marry." In any case, you can be sure that Fr. Jim and myself are quite happy (especially to be here at St. James).

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May 18th, 19th, 2002

The Church instructs us that Pentecost is the 3rd greatest feast day of the year! But it doesn’t seem that way to us. Families may gather for Christmas and we might have an Easter Dinner (with special Easter foods and candies) but Pentecost doesn’t draw much enthusiasm from us. Though it is the climax of the Easter season and recognized as the birth of the Church (the people of God) it seems to be pretty much like most other Sundays.

"Gifted to make a difference!"

These words appeared on a banner at a Confirmation – a sacrament whereby the Spirit is imposed upon us as we are commissioned to serve the Lord. In that ‘giftedness’ the Lord Jesus sends us an Advocate (meaning "one who stands by your side") to sustain us and to strength-en us by knowledge, consolation, courage, understanding, perseverance, fortitude. These are not code words or trite images. The apostles, gifted now to go out and talk about Jesus, would have to have everyone one of those "qualities" to endure what they were to endure. The early Church did not have its fantastic growth by any power of the sword, by any political power, through any social acceptance or respectability, or academic persuasion. Simply put, the life and teachings of Jesus were proclaimed and people understood - took it to heart and accepted. In that process the Spirit of God was evident.

On one occasion in his life (the first act of his public ministry in Luke’s gospel) Jesus went into a synagogue for prayer. They handed him a roll of Scriptures (from Isaiah) and he read these words to the people who were there for prayer:

The Spirit of the Lord is upon me,
because God has anointed me to bring good news to the poor, and has sent me to proclaim release to the captives and recovery of sight to the blind, to let the oppressed go free, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.

Perhaps this Pentecost Sunday might serve as a reminder that the passage of Isaiah is not only fulfilled in our presence but also through our presence!

It takes many gifts and the specific responses of followers of Christ such as you to make a parish, specifically St. James Parish, breathing and living reality. We are very much indebted to all of you who give of your time so selflessly throughout the year. Though we may not be able to appropriately thank you for what we have received from you – perhaps we can best express our gratitude by acting in like manner (following your example) and give unto others in return.

I would like to note that this year’s Easter collection amounted to $40,000 (yes, about 5% higher than last year). I would like to thank you and may God bless you for your great generosity.

And one final note: the Bishop’s Annual Appeal for this year is drawing to a close. For those who have contributed or made a pledge I want to express my gratitude for both your faith and continued support. My own pledge was the same as last year (to be paid over a short period of time). People still have the needs and we still have the ability to meet them – my own reason for my pledge. For those who haven’t yet committed to a pledge yet – please do so… thank you.
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May 11th & 12th, 2002

Pastor’s Notes: Among the many experiences we hear about, observe, or possibly even experience is the death of a child… your child. It seems axiomatic that parents learn, in one fashion or another, they will never stop thinking, caring, worrying, or loving their children.

I had heard of a woman who had lost a young child and she was absolutely inconsolable. No words, no gesture, no rituals could lift her from her grief. It was to all who witnessed it a heart-rendering situation. It was a scene that I had seen time and again.

As I reflected on this I went beyond what was visible to the eye and saw something that was absolutely awesome. For a mother (or father) to suffer so much pain also meant that they have to have been people of great and tremendous love! How must it feel to be able to love like that? (Or do we allow ourselves to dare to even think of how much we love another? We wouldn’t want to be seen as too vulnerable, would we?) Surely, to see such love dwelling in our midst ought to make us both jealous and happy.

A science teacher was illustrating to his students a lesson in about nuclear power. He said imagine taking a piece of rock and split it in half… then splint that in half… and keep doing it until you split it all the way down to one atom. Then, when you take that atom and split that in half – you don’t get two halves of an atom: you get an explosion of energy! (The atom bomb demonstrates what this is like.)

So, metaphorically speaking, you take one Mom, look beyond what you see with your eyes, peel away all distractions and extraneous concerns --- and you get one heck of a powerful explosion of love – and that energy is given to her children. It is a potential that is in all of us – but today we want to thank MOM for the ways she has expended that love in so many and creative ways.

Mini-parables
(with no set design behind their presentation)

In the time of Louis XIII, the bishop of Paris was questioning a precocious child who could seemingly answer any question. "I will give you an orange if you can tell me where God is," the bishop said.

"My Lord," replied the boy, "I will give you two oranges if you can tell me where God is not."

During the WWII defense of the Bataan Peninsula, an officer lined up his men and asked for volunteers to go on a dangerous mission. "Take two steps forward if you’ll go." As he said that he happened to glance away for a moment and when he looked again, no one had stepped forward.

"What? Not a single man?" he asked in dismay.

"Sir," his lieutenant said, "you don’t understand. The entire line just stepped forward two paces."

A pious and wealthy old Jew approached his Rabbi to ask him to look over the will he had just completed. He respected both the Rabbi’s faith/trust in God and his wisdom.

The Rabbi read through the will and told the man he did not leave enough for his children. The old man said "Bit I left them all my valuables!"

The Rabbi said "Yes, but you did not leave them your values."
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May 4th, 5th, 2002

 Mailings have gone out, articles have appeared in the Monitor (our diocesan newspaper), and we have seen a video… all in reference to the Bishop’s Annual Appeal. I encourage everyone to really consider contributing to this appeal. As noted earlier, the charitable works of the church need to go on and demands for such help have not lessened (in fact they have increased). There are envelopes on the table in the gathering area.

Since May is a month we Catholics sometimes focus on Mary you might find this reflection from Bishop Fulton Sheen (almost 50 years ago) somewhat relevant to our times. It is about Muslimism (sic) and Mary.

"Muslimism is the only great post-Christian religion of the world. Because it had its origin in the 7th century under Mohammed, it was possible to unite within it some elements of Christianity and of Judaism, along with particular customs of Arabia…

"The Christian European West barely escaped destruction at the hands of the Muslims. At one point they were stopped near Tours and at another point, later on in time, outside the gates of Vienna. The Church throughout northern Africa was practically destroyed by Muslim power, and at the present hour, the Muslims are beginning to rise again.

If Muslimism is a heresy, as Helaire Belloc believes it to be, it is the only heresy that has never declined… There was never a time in which it declined, either in numbers, or in the devotion of its followers.

The missionary effort of the Church toward this group has been, at least on the surface, a failure… the Muslims believe that they have the final and definitive revelation of God to the world and that Christ was only a prophet announcing Mohammed, the last of God’s real prophets."

Bishop Sheen then speaks of calling the Muslims to a veneration of the Mother of God.

"The Qu’ran, which is the Bible for the Muslims, has many passages concerning the Blessed Virgin. First of all, the Qu’ran believes in her Immaculate Conception, and also in her Virgin Birth. The third chapter of the Qu’ran places the history of Mary’s family in a genealogy which goes back through Abraham, Noah, and Adam. When one compares the Qu’ran’s description of the birth of Mary with the apocryphal Gospel of the Birth of Mary, one is tempted to believe that Mohammed very much depended upon the later.

"…the Qu’ran has also verses on the Annunciation, Visitation, and Nativity. Angels are pictured as accompanying the Blessed Mother and saying: "Oh, Mary, God has chosen you and purified you, and elected you above all the women of the earth." In the 19th chapter of the Qu’ran there are 41 verses on Jesus and Mary…

"…Mary, then, is for the Muslims the true Sayyida, or Lady. The only possible serious rival to her in their creed would be Fatima, the daughter of Mohammed himself. But after the death of Fatima, Mohammed wrote: "Thou shalt be most blessed of all women in Paradise, after Mary." In a variation of the text, Fatima is made to say, "I shall surpass all the women, except Mary."

"…Since nothing ever happens out of Heaven except with a finesse of all details, I believe that the blessed Virgin chose to be known as "Our Lady of Fatima" as a pledge and a sign of hope to the Muslim people, and as an assurance that they, who show her so much respect, will one day accept her divine Son, too.

"Evidence to support these views is found in the historical fact that the Muslims occupied Portugal for centuries. At the time when they were finally driven out, the last Muslim chief had a beautiful daughter by the name of Fatima. A Catholic boy fell in love with her, and for him she not only stayed behind when the Muslims left, but even embraced the faith. The young husband was so much in love with her that he changed the name of the town where he lived to Fatima. Thus, the very place where our lady appeared in 1917 bears a historical connection to Fatima, the daughter of Mohammed.

"The final evidence of the relationship of Fatima to the Muslims is the enthusiastic reception which the Muslims in Africa, India, and elsewhere gave to the pilgrim statue of Our Lady of Fatima. Muslims attended the church services in honor of our Lady, they allowed religious processions and even prayers before their mosques; and in Mozambique, the Muslims who were unconverted, began to be Christian as soon as the statue of Our Lady of Fatima was erected." (This essay can be found in Archbishop Sheen’s book, The World’s First Love)

May 4th was the day for First Eucharist for more than ninety of our children. All of the parish is extremely grateful to the instructors of these children (parents, relig. Education teachers, moms and dads who worked last week at the children’s "retreat day" and many other "supporting cast members). Say a short prayer for all of them. God bless you and keep you close in Divine Love.
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April 28th,  29th, 2002

 In my homily of Good Friday I noted that when Jesus was crucified he was not alone – there were criminals on either side of him. The innocent hanging between the two criminals. The backdrop is a realistic, a good, and a perennial image of the Church. Grace & sin; sanctity and pettiness; fidelity and betrayal… they are all part of a single horizon. There are no communities or families, church or other, where this is not the case.

Against this backdrop we have to understand the negative aspects of the Church. How can a church that exhibits so many negatives be an instrument of grace? How can a church, whose local leaders (priests), among whom some of whom are child molesters, be an instrument of grace? How could bishops who have so often simply moved those same molesters from one parish to another not see or understand the pain of the victims, be an instrument of grace?

These are not irreverent questions? The church is always God hung between two criminals. No one should be surprised or shocked about how badly the church has betrayed the gospel – and how it still does so today. It seems as though it has never done it very well. And let us recognize and let it be understood that, apart from the youngest, all of us stand together in this.

On the other hand, the good that the church has done and continues to do should never be denied. It has carried grace, produced saints, morally challenged the planet, and made, however imperfectly, a house for God to dwell in on earth.

We certainly deserve some of the sharp criticisms we are hearing. The church draws her priests from the same pool of people who someday will marry. Priests and parents all come from our families. The horror of pedophilia and child-molestation is as high both in and out of the church structure -though one rightly would expect it to be miniscule among the clergy. The church certainly never knowingly ordained such people – but would find them within her ranks at a later time (as someone would not knowingly marry a child molester). A friend of mine noted- "people may have married an angel – but none has lived with one."

With our understanding over the past 15 years of the dynamics of the child-molester it is inexcusable that such a person could have been reassigned to a position where children are put in harm’s way. And that is where the crux of the crisis lies. It is possible that I have selective hearing so I am open to correction but as I hear the various bishops and cardinals speak I hear them saying such things as "If I made a mistake,..," or "Perhaps in the past I have made a bad decision…". It is possible that because of any future litigation they must speak that way but no one has directly said "I made a terrible judgement" or "I made a terrible mistake."

All that being said, I’ve noticed that almost all the cases are from many years past. That is a sign that real change has been in effect for a number of years. I have also noticed that a lot of anti-Catholicism and very sloppy reporting comes along with some news reports. I am sure that you are aware of that and keep it in mind as you read. All this is messy and it is embarrassing but perhaps when the spotlight is off the church and the "lights go up" we will be aware of how much of it contaminates society (shame on child pornography that is a very wealthy industry throughout the world). Then we can take some steps for the protection of our children.

Triad House: over the years we have had as 72 people under the auspices of our parish volunteer as teachers. They were honored on April 16 (by Mercer County) and April 26 (by Life Ties). Our Good Samaritans were recognized at a volunteer banquet on the 23rd. Our Loaves and Fishes group has recently served well over a hundred of people at the Cathedral Parish in Trenton… and many of you volunteered or prepared food for such people. I could list many more groups of people of parishioners who give their time in helping others… but I mention these to let you know that the Spirit of God moves through our church in many and mysterious ways – and be glad in that!

Congratulations to Marie Palsir who, on April 16th, celebrated her 25th year as secretary at St. James Church. Many thanks and God bless you.


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April 20th, 21st, 2002

: The Easter message still rings in the ears of the faithful: "He is risen, he is not here!"

The following comes from a homily that appears in GOOD NEWS.

"…And we believe in life beyond this part of it, a fullness of life which Jesus promised.

"This faith is not shared, and indeed it is often mocked, by people who are ruthlessly secular, and who think that we are delusional, or those who refuse to accept the finality of death. The world is now full of people who think that all reality is only that which can be tested in a scientific laboratory. Is this chasm between believer and unbeliever – or skeptic – ever bridged? Put another way, do some people with a scientific mind believe what we believe- "all this stuff", as a scornful crowd would put it?

"Yes. Listen to this testimony of faith in life after death from a scientist of considerable renown…. He is John Polkinghorne of Cambridge University and in this passage (from his book Faith, Science, and Understanding) he talks about eschatological hope – that puzzling word which simply means the end – our own end, the world’s end. And he says, "(this hope) offers us a vision of immense scope. It is a vision that Christians must hold onto and express to those around us, with as much clarity and conviction as we can attain. The church must not lose its nerve about proclaiming the faithfulness of God and the final fulfillment of hope. At issue is the answer to an absolutely fundamental question: Does the universe make total sense, or is it, in the end, ‘a tale told by an idiot, full of sound and fury,

signifying nothing’?"

He continues, "If there were only the scientific story to tell, I would be inclined to agree with him." If the universe does not (sic) have a point, if it really makes total sense, if it is truly a cosmos and not a chaos, that is because there is also a theological story to tell that takes us beyond the scientific. This requires there to be other windows onto reality in addition to those we have looked through already." He concludes, "The pattern that is me will be dissolved at my death. Death is not the ultimate end, for only God is ultimate. It is a perfectly coherent belief that he pattern that is me will be remembered by God, held in the mind of the faithful Creator, and that God will ultimately reconstitute he pattern through the divine, eschatological act of resurrection into a new environment. In other words, my soul will be preserved in the divine memory and then re-embodied when I am raised to the ever-lasting life of the world to come. That ultimate act of resurrection will not involve the matter of this present creation. (Saint) Paul was right to say that ‘flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God, nor does the perishable inherit the imperishable’ (ICor. 15:50). If it did, resurrection would only mean being made alive again in order to die again. Our destiny is something altogether more hopeful than that."

One is struck by his words "the pattern that is me." We have probably never been called a pattern before! But it is an apt metaphor. In Genesis God is described as a sculptor, using clay to make us. Now: God the tailor. In making a suit or coat, the tailor uses a pattern, a design that becomes a finished product. With the human, that pattern involved flesh and blood, bone and sinew, and above all a brain. And into this pattern, which some would simply call our bodies, God breathed in his own life. And we are alive from that moment, and possibly forever.

The final statement of the scientist: "There comes a point in eschatological thought and speculation when talk should cease and we should be content to trust, wait, and see." Yes, and Paul’s beautiful statement comes to mind: we see now as in a glass darkly. Or, perhaps a clearer translation, we see only like someone looking in a mirror, seeing an image. But then, then: "we shall see face to face. We shall know, even as we are known."

Parish Appreciation Dinner: On May 17th (a Friday) parishioners (and their spouse) who have volunteered and worked for the parish over the past year are invited to a dinner-dance in appreciation for the work that makes St. James a living and vibrant church. Next week there will be forms in the bulletin for you to fill out and return.

Music will be by First Class Act. This invitation is open to those who are 21 years of age or older. The dinner-dance will also give you a chance to be with others you may not have seen throughout the year – but whose presence and gift of talents mean so much to our parish life.

Usually our Holy Week and Easter fall in the month of April. This month of April has no Holy Week or Easter, no 1st Communions, no Confirmation at St. James, and there are no holy days or holidays in this month. This all means that this weekend is a good time for you to sit down and make your pledge to the Bishop’s Annual Appeal. The work of God continues on (in spite of scandal that is in our midst) and those who are in need remain in need. I ask each of you to make a pledge and forward it to the diocese… especially if you have not pledge previously. Everyone’s gift is needed and everyone’s gift is appreciated.


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April 13th & 14th, 2002

At the Good Friday liturgy I spoke about innocents who "were hung on the cross" with Jesus as we see it in the revelation of child molestation among the Catholic clergy. It is rocking the church hard – but people are able to hold on to the greater faith and values of the church. An image I held up in the talk was of the hill of Calvary with Jesus crucified between two criminals: a perennial image of grace and evil. Grace and sin, sanctity and pettiness, fidelity and betrayal – they are all part of the horizon. There are no communities where this is not the case. It is against this backdrop that we need to view the church today. If you would like a copy of that homily I do have it available and will be glad to send it out to you. Contact me by phone, e-mail or letter.

Not everyone gets the Monitor (the diocesan newspaper) – but if you would like to keep up on the news and how the diocese and the National Conference of Catholic Bishops are addressing this issue you can go to two websites: www.dioceseoftrenton.org & www.nccbuscc.org. www.nj.com is another website that can link you up to some of the newspaper articles around the state.

Some of our parishioners had gone to "ground zero" last week in NYC. They were able to get tickets to go onto the platform. As they approached and stood on the platform the uniqueness of the spot was felt in the silence of the crowd that stood there. I’ve heard of two other places where people have visited that elicit similar silences: the memorial at Pearl Harbor, Hawaii and the Viet Nam memorial in Washington, DC. Last week I happened to pick up an article and just one sentence made me pause and stopped me from going any further. The words were surprisingly short and simple: "…two brothers in the North Tower…"

…innocents who are "crucified with Christ…" And it goes on and on. The innocents who are killed by suicide bombers… the innocents who are killed in armed conflict - Israel/Palestine (e.g. a man who lived by himself and had the job of ringing the bells at the Church of the Nativity in Bethlehem – 43 years of age and shot while on his way to his work)... the innocents in Afghanistan … and on and on.

After the death and resurrection of Jesus the Roman Empire continued to rule the world of the Mediterranean. The new church faced rejection and would soon face terrible persecutions… yet the power of Jesus and his life transformed the lives of so many. This Sunday’s gospel of the two dis